We are all subject to perpetual doubt. There isn’t a single one of us in the 21st century who can make a decision and be satisfied with it. Irrespective of how long you have been together, doubting the quality of your romance is quite natural. You may have been together for 7 years, but you can still be unconvinced with his ‘I do’ on the marriage aisle. So, what is the key to understanding if he is ‘the one’?
1. HE SUPPORTS YOU IN YOUR ENDEAVORS
A good partner will always want the best for you. He SO should be the first one present in your show, the one screaming the loudest from the sidelines. He should hold the power and the desire to help you achieve your true potential.
2. HE IS THE CALMNESS-FACTOR
After a day of unforgiving corporate deadlines, you should be able to come home to a pair of welcoming arms. We all have a significant load of storms that we pass through. Our partner should always be the saving grace.
3. HE CONTINUES TO ASK YOU OUT
The cutest feeling is knowing that you partner still has a crush on you. It means that he hasn’t taken you for granted, and is willing to invest the time and energy required to win you over, every single day.
4. HE IS HARDWORKING
Dedication is a huge point of attraction. If you marry somebody who is a slacker, then the laziness will eventually get to you. Living with somebody who is a go-getter, pushes you to do better in life.
5. HE MAKES TIME FOR THE TWO OF YOU
We all have really busy careers. But what is any of that worth if you do not have the liberty to spend some time with your own family? While earning money, or hanging out with the boy gang is important, he should be able to clear a part of his everyday schedule and reserve it solely for you.
6. HE IS GREAT TO HIS MOTHER
Always remember that men don’t have behavioral exceptions regarding women. If he treats his mother or sister horribly, without any reason, yet acts sweet with you, then know that it won’t last. You will eventually end up in the same spot as them.